According to Ok Cupid, messages with those “words” get replies less than 10% of the time (ouch). You’re better off spelling things out like a grown-ass man.
Ok Cupid discovered that messages with those words receive responses 25% of the time or less.
You want to be clever but not corny, sincere but not overly sensitive.
Oftentimes, guys end up creating a sort of resumé with their best selling points.
Like, the kind of person who would go skydiving or ski down a mountain strapped to a pair of naked ninja turtles. A “pickup artist” is basically a guy who feeds you a line but supposedly it’s such a good line that you don’t notice.
But then, out of the blue, he said I looked really spontaneous. It turns out that inceptioning the idea of “spontaneity” into a woman’s mind is a common tactic used by pickup artists to encourage her to take a chance on him — or at least casual sex with him — outlined in Neil Stauss’ widely read 2005 book , which garnered significant criticism for shedding light onto the sometimes-manipulative tactics employed by pickup artists.
They also deem you as less trustworthy and less socially attractive; so, you'll be seeing far fewer messages in your inbox.
Strive to present yourself as a trust-worthy, reliable, humble guy.
The exact same line about spontaneity, all from different guys.
It’s a new world to exploit — with fresh e Books, video tutorials, and interminable website copy interspersed with plenty of cleavage — all dedicated to figuring out the intricacies of online attraction and seduction.
You want to up your odds and shoot for the stars—or, rather the girl who's out of your league.