She wanted to know how I was feeling and what she could do to help.
This especially goes for interracial relationships. Trying to assimilate or mirror the behaviors of your partner, so you appear more suitable to them or others is not a relationship you want to be in. Don’t make the choice to date someone of another race because you have given up on yours or because you are trying to fulfill a fetish or sexual fantasy.
Regardless if it is same race or different, make sure that love or the potential for love is the true driving force.
Who you choose to love does not dilute what you stand for.
There are many people who will argue that a Black man or woman cannot possibly love themselves or their people if they choose to date or procreate with someone of a different race.
She has devoted a great deal of her time and energy on mastering the art of communication in order to create healthy, dynamic, long-lasting relationships.
More an dating in such are whether differently and online the.
“Switching Teams” is a phrase I have often heard out the mouths of men and women who have experienced repeated dissatisfaction when dating individuals of their own race.
I hear women jokingly declare that they are “opening up their minds” and “expanding their horizons,” after growing tired of empty-ending love affairs with men of their race.
Should you choose to engage with a person who is not or has not been exposed to your culture, encourage them to be inquisitive. People have their own reasons for why they believe people should only date within their race and sadly, we will never live in a world where people understand that you love who you love.