Frequent texting, emailing, and talking can build intimacy fast when you’re in a long distance relationship.
When all you have to build a relationship with is words, you can get to know someone at a deep level quite quickly.
When you’re in a long distance relationship the right words can cross the miles and touch your partner.
Remember, though, it’s ultimately more important that your words touch their heart than increase their pulse rate.
Many believe that any sort of attempt at long distance sex—be it by way of sexting, exchanging photos, erotic storytelling, or even Skype sex—lacks the intimacy of a true romantic encounter. Any sort of sexual activity—whether in person or across distance—builds intimacy.
In addition, engaging in phone or web sex across the miles will make it much more tempting to have sex when you meet in person.
And even if he or she has perfectly innocent intentions at the time, good intentions are not always enough.
Laptops get stolen, breakups happen, and formerly loving people can turn vindictive.
It will be a long time, however, before you can depend on those sorts of laws to protect you from “unwanted exposure.” So think it through.
With the technology available today, your partner can record you with the click of a button.
There are some good suggestions for how to get over the awkwardness in a blog post at Adam and Eve, on creating sexy boudoir photo shoots.
Their tips would work equally well when it comes to getting in the mood for phone or web sex.
My Skype obsession started some 4 months ago when, after a lengthy session of chatroulette, I found myself embroiled in regular online banter with a rather cute American boy.