Granted, this exchange was entirely anecdotal as was the feedback from all the other women we interviewed about men with E. So, if you are a heterosexual woman of any adult age reading this, we would love to know your thoughts on this topic.And, any stories you are willing to share about what it is like to have a man with E. or impotence (and who is not feeling shame about it) as a lover.For example "morning wood" is the erection many men will experience first thing in the morning when waking up.
Sure, stimulating it can cause an erection, but it doesn't work 100% of the time and getting rid of an erection isn't always controllable either.
What could help erections go away is an ice bucket challenge or the threat thereof. imagine sitting in an algebra class when you're 12 or 13, suddenly the trouser snake raises the roof in your pants (teacher isn't cute, quadratic equations don't appear sexy at first sight).
So, while the male partner is almost always able to achieve orgasmic release through penetrative sex, many women are not. or full impotence, AND have come to terms that their condition has not defined or limited their sense of manhood, no longer feel the sense of urgency that accompanies an erection.
This can leave them feeling a bit used and unfulfilled in the intimacy department. This allows them to slow way down for their partner and please her in the way please her like no other.
Mention this to any heterosexual female and you will typically see an immediate wry smile and nod of agreement. When most of us guys get hard, it needs attention, like right now.
It is the way we are genetically wired to spread our seed far and wide and often as possible as part of the grand plan to propagate the species.
All you can think of is "please, please, please, Mr/Ms , please don't make me get up and walk up to the blackboard."Have you asked your boyfriend about his erections, how he feels about them, if he's embarrassed or if, indeed, he does always have the horn for you?
An erection can actually be painful - some erections are harder than others.
One of the men who showed up, about my age and suffering from impotence, shared that he pretty much has given up any hope of being with a woman for the rest of his life.