[Read: 10 types of guys girls find creepy] Of course, bad boys are extremely attractive.
But I don’t think any girl takes a bad boy seriously or gives him a thought beyond a one night stand. They’re both the two extremes of a spectrum that girls don’t care about. And a nice guy gives a girl a chance to have a man Friday to run her errands.
Do you feel like nice guys always finish last no matter what they do or how hard they try? Instead, look inward and ask yourself if you’re the kind of nice guy that all girls choose to avoid. But they definitely don’t like a guy who goes overboard in trying to please them all the time, especially if they’re not in a relationship already.
Yes, there are different kinds of nice guys, and almost all of them aren’t really as good as they think they are. A regular guy may be nice to a girl, but a nice guy almost always ends up looking desperate and eager to please.
Contrary to a nice guy’s belief, the world isn’t split into just two kinds of men, the nice guys and the bad boys.
There are great guys, sweet guys, charming guys, flirty guys, principled guys and hundreds of other kinds of guys who are admired and liked by girls.
They’re really nice guys who make great friends and terrible boyfriends.
[Read: How to get a girl to like you again after she’s lost interest in you] But girls do want nice guys As you can see, there are many reasons why nice guys don’t really make the cut when it comes to getting a girl’s fancy.[Read: How to avoid her friend zone and make her desire you] After all, a guy who likes a girl will try to flirt with her or tease her, not just ask her if it’s okay to carry her grocery bags or wash her car for her. They don’t mind making fun of themselves or putting themselves down all the time, and they don’t care about getting pushed around by other guys. Nice guys are too sweet to voice their real opinions and end up frustrating themselves.If you’re a nice guy and are wondering why nice guys finish last, here are 15 reasons to help you understand yourself better. At other times, they may bottle themselves up with implosive anger and suddenly burst out one day out of the blue. Nice guys start off as sweet and caring, but end up becoming too needy and insecure in a relationship because they’re always threatened by every other guy who talks to their girlfriend.So a girl just doesn’t have to choose between a bad boy and a nice guy.She has a lot of great options, and almost always, she picks any guy but the bad boy or the nice guy.Nice guys constantly look to the future for a better life, be it by earning more money or getting a great job, but do nothing to change the present even though they know they need to change their behavior. No one takes a nice guy seriously because he never wants to offend anyone. No girl notices them until they make a move *as a friend* and then it’s all too late.