“He does think of me when he’s away from me.” You get points when you’re not even there. Romance doesn’t mean: I brought you flowers, so I should get sex tonight. Romance creates a healthy romantic backdrop for a woman’s responsiveness. A man’s normal testosterone levels are 300-1,000 ng/d L serum blood.
I asked my husband what men would like to hear about. Chances are your wife has already started to plan that delicious menu. But she’s also thinking about her guest list — how to keep Aunt Suzie from dominating poor nephew Allen.
He responded that men wanted to know the bra trick and probably how to get her interested and how to make it good for her—they wanted someone with a manual to share the important secrets. She’s wondering about which single woman she can invite to the growing table that might make a match for her single brother.
And you’ve probably been shot down a time or two (or hundred).
The best time to suggest something new is not on the car ride home but after she is very aroused.
This year’s centerpiece will be the piece de resistance. But you don’t know why anyone would bother with the trimmings when there’s a feast ahead; doesn’t matter to you if it’s on china or a paper plate. Women think more like the web—everything links to everything. You’ve also to have the right grip and keep your eye on the ball. Then, they take another 20 minutes of genital stimulation to reach orgasm.
Candles have already made the shopping list so everything will be perfect. Women like to feel deeply connected before they turn on sexually. It works against us when the task at hand is sex and we can’t let go of the cares of the day. Marshal all these sex tips for a coordinated effort. If you rush her, she’ll conclude it’s not her night and tell you to go ahead.
At 300, he won’t have morning erections, he struggles even with Viagra, will think about sex about once a week, and if he has a fight with his wife he won’t want it.
A woman’s testosterone level is about 70 ng/d L when she is 18 and half that when she is 40 if she’s lucky.
Women are often socialized to be the brakes, not the engine, of sexual desire.
My female clients often tell me about their spouses' ideas.
Gifts and flowers are like transitional objects standing in for your presence. As far as verbal suggestions, “Do you want to have sex? “Mmmm,” they think, “do I want to have sex…uh, no.” It’s the wrong question. Think about weightlifting with and without steroids.