they hardly make her come across as having “class,” if she talks too much and constantly draws attention to her persona.
Being professional, educated, and having a great sense of humor are very attractive qualities in a woman.
Elegance is in her voice, movement and body language, manner of speech, the way she stands sits, and responds to other people around her.
Some of these traits, such as voice, and a walk – are part of our nature, while other elements of elegance, such as our interpersonal skills are strongly linked to our upbringing.
A woman who has true class and strong sense of self does not need to run around and tell everyone how smart and successful she is, whether it’s in “real” life, or on Facebook, Linked In, Ok Cupid or anywhere else.
This urge to validate yourself through bragging is a clear sign of insecurity and of in both men and women.
The formal definition of being “classy” also doesn’t add much to understanding what class means in the context of dating and attraction.
For instance, being a sharp dresser, clean, and not using profanities are certainly qualities that flatter to a woman, but…Many guys would know elegance when they see it, but this kind of statement is of little use to a woman who wants to become more elegant.Elegance is the manner in which a woman carries her self in just about every situation.This is not to say that she is shy or lacking confidence.On the contrary – her confidence puts her at ease and relieves her of any desire or need to validate herself to her company.Green/orange/blue hair, tattoos and piercings all over or otherwise looking like a girl with a dragon tattoo might help you express your individuality but they are surely not a sign of being classy or sophisticated. Her mission in life is not in challenging men and competing with men wherever possible; she enjoys pleasing men without feeling ashamed of it, and is proud to be a woman.